I’ve been thinking a lot about this… what is my individual recipe for success? There must be one for everyone right? And just like spaghetti sauce, no two recipes are the same.
I can’t say I know for certain what my recipe is because I wouldn’t say that I feel like I am I successful at this particular point in my life. At different points in my life, I may have said that I had achieved it. Funny how that is… I’m sure some day (hopefully soon), I will “feel successful” again. It will be at a point in my life when all the following ingredients have been blended together with the right portion of each (without being an exact science… no measuring cups required!).
Living in a foreign country has been an amazing test of character and also has allowed a lot of self-reflection. During this time, I’ve realized how important these things are to me at this point in my life:
1) A stable home. A place where I have my belongings, however few. Where I can let go, unwind, and feel safe. Safe from the boogie man, an intruder, mosquitoes, and excess HEAT!
2) A sense of purpose. Something that makes me want to wake up every day because I know that I’m needed and I love what I’m doing. The two factors together is key!
3) The happiness of my partner. Because if I am content and he is not, then that’s not really being successful is it?
4) Living somewhere that feeds my soul. Where there is culture, and beauty, and atmosphere. Where I can enjoy the company of good people, and quality conversations.
5) Meaningful friendships… a support system, a community!
6) Income that supports my lifestyle. That pays for my home (#1), allows me to live in a country or place that feeds my soul (#4), and enjoy the company of good people (#5) over good food and wine … Could be home cooked, doesn’t have to be fancy!
7) And lastly, having a family in fitness. I love exercise. More than I realized. But what I love most about it is the sense of community. A space where we hold each other accountable and cheer each other on to help one another live a healthier life. Maybe why I choose to be with my personal trainer!! 🙂 Without exercise, and the endorphins and self confidence that comes with it, I can’t imagine feeling like I was in a good place.
Would you say that you feel successful at this point in your life? What do you think YOUR recipe for success looks like? Thanks for sharing. Feel free to email us. We love to hear from you and are always inspired by everyone’s story.
